{"id":1668,"date":"2023-12-29T17:39:43","date_gmt":"2023-12-29T17:39:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.karendeeming.com\/?p=1668"},"modified":"2024-04-07T18:36:46","modified_gmt":"2024-04-07T17:36:46","slug":"how-to-stop-comparing-improve-low-self-esteem-and-increase-your-self-confidence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.karendeeming.com\/index.php\/2023\/12\/29\/how-to-stop-comparing-improve-low-self-esteem-and-increase-your-self-confidence\/","title":{"rendered":"How to stop comparing, improve low self esteem and increase your self confidence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.karendeeming.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/you_revolution17-jan2015.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-1678\" src=\"http:\/\/www.karendeeming.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/you_revolution17-jan2015-275x300.png\" alt=\"you_revolution17 jan2015\" width=\"275\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.karendeeming.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/you_revolution17-jan2015-275x300.png 275w, https:\/\/www.karendeeming.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/you_revolution17-jan2015-138x150.png 138w, https:\/\/www.karendeeming.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/you_revolution17-jan2015.png 524w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 275px) 100vw, 275px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>For those of you who are unfamiliar, social comparison theory is how we determine our own social and personal worth based on how we stand up against others. It is a process whereby people, like you and I, evaluate ourselves, to a certain degree, by examining their own qualities and abilities with those of others.<\/p>\n<p>It manifests as an inner voice or negative chatterbox that often goes something like this:<br \/>\n\u2022 I wish I could stop comparing myself to other people<br \/>\n\u2022 If only I could overcome these jealousy and envy feelings because they hold me back<br \/>\n\u2022 Why can\u2019t I just accept myself for who I am?<br \/>\n\u2022 Why do I talk myself out of doing incredible things because I am afraid to discover if I\u2019ve got what it takes?<br \/>\n\u2022 Why haven\u2019t I got as many facebook likes or twitter followers as my friends or business competitors?<br \/>\n\u2022 Why am I less attractive then my best friend?<br \/>\n\u2022 I wish I could afford a nice house and expensive car like my boss at work<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Not surprisingly, in today\u2019s quick fix, target-driven, celebrity, facebook, twitter, botox obsessed society, this increasingly common epidemic \u201csocial comparison\u201d is sweeping the world, an extreme envious, keeping up with the Joneses and it\u2019s causing burn out, anxiety, depression, addiction, low self esteem, envy, procrastination to name a few.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about comparing status, comparing facebook likes and twitter retweets, comparing wrinkles, comparing schools, comparing bra and pec sizes, comparing gadgets, comparing academic ability the list goes on and it\u2019s spreading fast!!! It\u2019s tempting to think that this is a 21st century virus but it\u2019s been with us since the beginning of time.<\/p>\n<p>As a result, we are constantly making self and other evaluations across a variety of perimeters such as: attractiveness, wealth, intelligence, and success.<\/p>\n<p>For most of us, the virus will continue from the cradle until the grave.<\/p>\n<p>Let me give you an example. Though you want to experience more adventure, happiness and purpose in your life you compare yourself to gurus and talk yourself out of doing incredible things because you are afraid to discover if you\u2019ve got what it takes.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong comparing yourself to other people from time to time can be healthy as it can set a benchmark for excellence and sometimes provide us with the inspiration we need. However it\u2019s when it becomes obsessive and a regular negative thinking pattern that infects personal relationships with our partners and children and paralyses us to attempt anything new that it becomes a problem.<\/p>\n<p>I, Karen Deeming,\u00a0am now doing my dream job as a successful Consultant, Psychotherapist and Mindfulness Teacher\u00a0advising film Directors, such as Mike Leigh, on the authenticity of film narratives involving psychotherapy. But it wasn\u2019t always like that, I too was often crippled by the comparing virus in my well-paid secure corporate job until one day I stopped comparing and started daring:<\/p>\n<p>I dared to take risks, I dared to leave my well paid corporate job and do a MA in Psychotherapy, I dared to leave Yorkshire for London and I dared to fulfill my dreams and passions. Most significantly though, I dared to drop my mask and accept myself for who I.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>It may seem a mammoth task and a huge mountain to climb right now, however, here are some tips to help you overcome comparing yourself to other people:<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h2><strong>Firstly acknowledge that comparing yourself to others is a bad habit.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The media and Society often portray people with flawless skin, pure white teeth, slim bodies, huge houses and expensive cars as being the happiest and most successful people on the planet. I can, however, assure you that in my work as a Therapist and in my life before counselling and coaching this has often proved not to be the case. If it were true that these characteristics guarantee a passport to living a happy, fulfilling and healthy life, why did Mick Jagger\u2019s girlfriend, L&#8217;Wren Scott a beautiful and highly successful fashion designer commit suicide then?<\/p>\n<p>Society similarly projects men with flawless skin, six packs, and designer clothes with lots of women, as badges which promise men a lifetime of achievement and contentedness. If this is the case then again why did Michael Hutchence and Kurt Cobain kill themselves?<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Lots of wealthy people and celebrities also adopt unhealthy behaviours such as excessive drinking, cocaine use and eating disorders and though they appear confident are often experiencing low self esteem\u00a0so why\u2019s that then?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Society is remarkably effective at brainwashing people into believing they should look a certain way, act a certain way, be a certain someone, when in reality every single one of us is different. Society pigeonholes people and wants you to believe that you have fewer rights to be happy because you do not fit an idealistic lifestyle. I believe this happens \u2018toxic pigeonholing\u2019 happens because it keeps the consumer tread mill in business, continually filling up the pockets of plastic surgeons, BMW and Mercedes, banks, estate agents and pharmaceutical companies who prescribe so called \u201chappy pills\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>As activist Satish Kumar put it: \u201cSociety is obsessed with \u201cBIG\u201d big nation, big business, big schools but with bigness you lose humanity.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Remember that it is only following the industrial revolution that we became materially focused and it clearly doesn\u2019t seem to be working for the majority.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Comparing yourself to others, especially celebrities and top academics, is a fine way to throw your self-esteem down the drain as there will always be those who are &#8216;better&#8217; than you, and those who are &#8216;worse&#8217; than you.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>So give yourself a break!!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Stop comparing and begin to celebrate your own unique talents and what makes you special<\/strong>. By constantly watching and focusing on what other people are doing and how they are looking, it takes away your own inspiration, style and creativity and you end up becoming a clone, a follower of fashion or a people pleaser. Is this how you really want to run your life? Me, I\u2019d much rather be a pioneer than a late adopter or carbon copy of other people it\u2019s much more liberating and fun.<\/p>\n<p>Fear of failure is a huge block for developing to your full potential and can often result in regular bouts of putting things off and procrastination. Since I began to <strong>welcome mistakes<\/strong> and to tell myself there are no mistakes and that everything is a learning opportunity, my life and work outputs have significantly improved. When a child learns to walk stands up and falls down is that a mistake?<\/p>\n<p>Learn how to accept yourself warts and all, focusing on your stengths and weaknesses rather than constantly striving to improve yourself.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>If you recognise any of the issues highlighted in this blog you are not alone in this very common dilemma.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2><strong>Face to face or on line\u00a0counselling or a personal development or mindfulness course can help you to overcome going around in circles and to stop comparing yourself to other people.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So, if you need a bit of extra support and encouragement and a few counselling or mindfulness\u00a0sessions why not contact me Karen Deeming\u00a0to arrange an appointment or\u00a0for a short free introductory chat on 07950 751352 or by emailing us on info@karendeeming.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For those of you who are unfamiliar, social comparison theory is how we determine our own social and personal worth based on how we stand up against others. 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